Internet Dating: The 3 Golden Rules Of Instant Messaging

The internet seems to be the answer to any question out there. Whatever you want, is available online, whether it is food or clothes or even dates. Internet dating is not a new thing today.
      We have all heard of many of our friends finding their special someone online or even finding great friends online. This is one place where you can be brave and adventurous and yet not risk a lot.

      Several sites offer internet-dating services. You can look at the personal ads of women on these sites and then contact them if you find them interesting. These sites make it possible for you to tell the woman that you are interested in her, in several ways. You can use ‘winks’ or ‘icebreakers’ to let her know that you are interested. It much faster and easier than sending an email.
      The best way to communicate, however, is instant messaging (IM). You can talk to her in real time and yet have time to think what your next move will be. You can be spontaneous, funny and just about anything without hesitating. This can be a blessing for you especially if you are otherwise shy to make the first move when it comes to women.
      There are a few rules that you can follow so that you can make your IM experience not only enjoyable but also successful.
      Know her before contacting her
      This is especially important, otherwise she will end up taking you to be just casual and you will end up losing any contact. So make sure you her personal ad properly. Find something that is common to both of you and if you cannot find anything common, then look for something that interests you. This way you will be able to start an interesting conversation with her.
      You can start a conversation with a compliment, a question about something in her personal ad or something like ‘The dating site tells me you are a potential match for me. What do you think?’
      All these are effective ways to start a conversation.
      Do not do all the talking and let her talk too.
      You are not here to give a monologue. So stop behaving like you are. You do not need to blabber on and on about yourself.  Use short and to the point, yet interesting sentences. You should be able to maintain her interest or else you will lose her.
      Turn on your charm but be subtle
      When you are being charming and yet subtle, there is a certain attraction about it. So use it to attract your woman. Complement her and wait for her to respond. If she responds positively, then you are in.
      Do not forget, that IM is simply a means to getting to the date that you want to. An IM conversation can often lead to a telephonic conversation and if that goes well, then to an actual date.

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